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Our Choices Define Us

  • Writer: Ed Malay
    Ed Malay
  • Aug 18, 2025
  • 5 min read

๐€๐”๐†. ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—, ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“: ๐“๐–๐„๐๐“๐ˆ๐„๐“๐‡ ๐–๐„๐„๐Š ๐ˆ๐ ๐Ž๐‘๐ƒ๐ˆ๐๐€๐‘๐˜ ๐“๐ˆ๐Œ๐„

๐…๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญย ๐‘๐ž๐š๐๐ข๐ง๐ : ๐‰๐ ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ”:๐Ÿ๐Ÿ-๐Ÿ๐Ÿ’

๐‘๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐๐ฌ๐š๐ฅ๐ฆ: ๐๐ฌ๐š ๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ“:๐Ÿ—, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ-๐Ÿ๐Ÿ’ โ€œ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‹๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ค๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐žโ€

๐†๐Ž๐’๐๐„๐‹: ๐Œ๐€๐“๐“ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—:๐Ÿ๐Ÿ‘-๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ

๐‘ฒ๐’†๐’š ๐‘ฝ๐’†๐’“๐’”๐’†: โ€œ๐’ƒ๐’–๐’• ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐‘ฎ๐’๐’… ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’” ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’‘๐’๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’ƒ๐’๐’†.โ€ (๐’—.26)ย 

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ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  ย Life is all about the choices we make and making a choice has become our preoccupation from the moment we open our eyes at the break of dawn to the setting of the sun. We choose if we are going to lift and stretch ourselves up, go through our usual routines in the morning and off to what we are supposed to do for the day. Especially these days amidst the toxic political environment we are in when our choices not only define us but have a bearing on our eternal salvation.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  We can remain curled up in bed and for all I care say to ourselves โ€œI wonโ€™t work today.โ€ We can choose to be jovial, warm and accommodating towards everyone we meet outside our gates, on the street, on the bus, workplace, everywhere. We can also choose to sneer, be obnoxious and arrogant towards others.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  The point I am trying to make is we become what we choose to be. We can be loving and kind and, in an instant, we can be the exact opposite - unkind, indifferent, ungenial and unbenignant to our fellowmen. What we project springs from the kind of choices that we make.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  This was the case of the rich young man in this Scripture passage. A few verses back, this rich young man was asking Jesus what he can do to possess eternal life? But when Jesus said go sell your possessions and give it to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven, the rich young man went away in sorrow.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  The disciples were amazed because if a rich man canโ€™t be saved, then who can be saved? At that time, they were still under the OT Jewish idea that riches meant the blessing of God on your life. ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ค ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ:๐Ÿ๐Ÿ’ says that the rich have a hard time being saved because they trust in their riches.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  And as we come to this passage for today that we read in ๐Œ๐€๐“๐“ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—:๐Ÿ๐Ÿ‘-๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ, we see Jesus telling his disciples it would be easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. But before those who may be rich get discouraged, what Jesus was saying is not to be taken as a sweeping statement that the rich have no place in heaven.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  The possessions that may bar us from entering the Kingdom of Heaven may not actually even be the material wealth that rich people possess because such possessions at times are also being used for the good of the Church and the Community. This means that mere possession of material wealth is not sinful. What becomes sin is in the way these materials blessings are being employed by those who own them.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  In the world we now live in, wealth almost always gives us the false independence that we donโ€™t need anything other than the wealth we can depend on to pursue a comfortable life. Take the case of the current โ€œ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐›๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅโ€ issue that has become daily fare among Filipinos. What we see being projected is the life of luxury of the major characters involved in the scam and the question we need to ask ourselves is can any of these material possessions bring us to life eternally in heaven?ย 

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  Possession of material wealth at times also leads us to forget the source of our possessions as we rely largely on the exercise of our personal talents that we thought we were born with and sustained by our education and training rather than on the gifts that God has generously entrusted to us.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  There are also times when we develop the propensity to hold back in sharing what we have with those in need that as we begin to accumulate more, the more we become stingy to the point that we even rationalize that people are poor because they chose to be poor and we are wealthy because we worked our butts off to be what we are now.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  As we get richer, we tend to withhold helping others even if our resources are more than what we need and will use in our lifetime. Worst, we may part with a fraction of the blessings we have received but we want it to be known in every corner of the Church and or the Community.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  In other words, if some of us who may be rich will ignore the need for an intimate relationship with God, there is a tendency that the rich will acquire these negative attitudes which Jesus refers to as โ€œ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ฅ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌโ€ that would make it hard for them to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  And this is where the problem lies because many times those who come to Jesus look at the rewards they can get in terms of material possessions and Peter mirrored what many of us also expect when Peter asked: โ€œ๐‘พ๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’„๐’‚๐’ ๐’˜๐’† ๐’ˆ๐’†๐’• ๐’‡๐’“๐’๐’Ž ๐’‡๐’๐’๐’๐’๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’š๐’๐’–?โ€ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย 

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  But instead of rebuking Peter, Jesus patiently explained to him and the other disciples that those who will share in his suffering will also most assuredly share in his glory. And as Jesus assured His disciples that they will get their rewards in His Kingdom, He nevertheless cautioned them, and He is also telling us now that we should not make ourselves "๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ" because the first shall be last in the spiritual scheme of things.ย ย 

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  What Jesus was emphasizing is that anyone who wishes to follow him, who denies himself, and who will take up his own cross will receive not material possessions but will be given the right to enter into a divine fellowship with him.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  As such, we need to detach and dispossess ourselves from all the worldly possessions that weigh us down as represented by these ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ง ๐œ๐š๐ฉ๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ โ€“ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ž, ๐ž๐ง๐ฏ๐ฒ, ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐จ๐ง๐ฒ, ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ๐ก, ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ, ๐š๐ฏ๐š๐ซ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ก. These seven sins give birth to ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ, ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฃ๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜บ, ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜บ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ต, ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ, ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ, ๐˜ซ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜บ, ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฉ ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ, ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด, ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ท๐˜บ, ๐˜ฅ๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด, ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  In contrast, Jesus is asking us to acquire and fill ourselves with the riches of his Kingdom that spring from ๐’๐’๐’—๐’†, ๐’‹๐’๐’š, ๐’‘๐’†๐’‚๐’„๐’†, ๐’‘๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’†๐’๐’„๐’†, ๐’Œ๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’๐’†๐’”๐’”, ๐’ˆ๐’๐’๐’…๐’๐’†๐’”๐’”, ๐’‡๐’‚๐’Š๐’•๐’‰๐’‡๐’–๐’๐’๐’†๐’”๐’”, ๐’ˆ๐’†๐’๐’•๐’๐’†๐’๐’†๐’”๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡-๐’„๐’๐’๐’•๐’“๐’๐’. And this is the message in this Gospel.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  It is a must for those who want to enter the Kingdom of Heaven to crucify their sinful nature for it is only in doing so that we can also be resurrected with Him in glory. We will certainly find the road to the Kingdom of God strewn with challenges and pitfalls but there is nothing impossible with God for as long as we hang on to Him for He loved the world so much that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. (๐˜Œ๐˜ฅ ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ โ€“ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ถ๐˜จ. 20, 2025)

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