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Key To Perfection: Love God And Neighbor

  • Writer: Ed Malay
    Ed Malay
  • Aug 22, 2025
  • 6 min read

๐€๐”๐†. ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ, ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“: ๐Œ๐„๐Œ๐Ž๐‘๐ˆ๐€๐‹ ๐Ž๐… ๐“๐‡๐„ ๐๐”๐„๐„๐๐’๐‡๐ˆ๐ ๐Ž๐… ๐“๐‡๐„ ๐๐‹๐„๐’๐’๐„๐ƒ ๐•๐ˆ๐‘๐†๐ˆ๐ ย ๐Œ๐€๐‘๐˜

๐…๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญย ๐‘๐ž๐š๐๐ข๐ง๐ : ๐‘๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก ๐Ÿ:๐Ÿ, ๐Ÿ‘-๐Ÿ”, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ’-๐Ÿ๐Ÿ”, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ

๐‘๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐๐ฌ๐š๐ฅ๐ฆ: ๐๐ฌ๐š ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ”:๐Ÿ“-๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ โ€œ๐๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‹๐จ๐ซ๐, ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ.โ€

๐†๐Ž๐’๐๐„๐‹: ๐Œ๐€๐“๐“ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ:๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’-๐Ÿ’๐ŸŽ)

๐‘ฒ๐’†๐’š ๐‘ฝ๐’†๐’“๐’”๐’†: "๐‘ณ๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ณ๐’๐’“๐’… ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ฎ๐’๐’… ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’• ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’”๐’๐’–๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’…." (๐’—.37)

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ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  Our God exhorts us โ€œ๐’„๐’๐’๐’”๐’†๐’„๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’—๐’†๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’ƒ๐’† ๐’‰๐’๐’๐’š, ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’„๐’‚๐’–๐’”๐’† ๐‘ฐ ๐’‚๐’Ž ๐’‰๐’๐’๐’šโ€ (๐‘ณ๐’†๐’— 11:44)ย ย and Our Lord said this again in 1ย ๐‘ท๐’†๐’•ย 1:16 โ€œ๐‘ฉ๐’† ๐’‰๐’๐’๐’š ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’„๐’‚๐’–๐’”๐’† ๐‘ฐ ๐’‚๐’Ž ๐’‰๐’๐’๐’š,โ€ and everyone of course want to be holy and there are many of us who will spend a lifetime searching for the Kingdom of God and the means to attain holiness.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  We respond to the call to holiness because there is that inner desire in us to gain the eternal salvation that God has so generously promised to those who will believe in him. And in the pursuit of holiness and eternity, we find ourselves doing so many things in the Church or Community than what we are capable of handling.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  And when we miss our goal, we get frustrated and end up in the same spiritless condition we were in. The wise will reflect on what could have gone wrong in their search and perhaps resume their search. Others will fall back into the same world that they tried to escape from, and theyโ€™ll end up living the same kind of life marked by spiritual despondency.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  But the common problem in the pursuit of holiness is not knowing where to begin and oftentimes we tend to give up when we are battered by life-storms (problems, failures, losses, death in the family, sickness) and strong winds (irritants, frustrations, bitterness, resentments, anger, unforgiveness) that punctuate our lives.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  We can begin by drawing inspiration from what the Catechism of the Catholic Church says: โ€œ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’˜๐’‚๐’š ๐’๐’‡ ๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’‡๐’†๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’‘๐’‚๐’”๐’”๐’†๐’” ๐’ƒ๐’š ๐’˜๐’‚๐’š ๐’๐’‡ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ช๐’“๐’๐’”๐’”. ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’๐’ ๐’‰๐’๐’๐’Š๐’๐’†๐’”๐’” ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰๐’๐’–๐’• ๐’“๐’†๐’๐’–๐’๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’”๐’‘๐’Š๐’“๐’Š๐’•๐’–๐’‚๐’ ๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’•๐’•๐’๐’†.โ€ (๐‘ช๐‘ช๐‘ช2015)ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  And this is where we get stuck because many of us who have been spoiled by the care of this world just couldnโ€™t shake off the dust off our feet and no matter how many times we resolve to change we find ourselves living and loving what the world can offer.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  This is where the difference between believing and doing comes into play. It is not enough that we only believe in God because while salvation may be a free gift from God, it just doesnโ€™t work that way. There is a corresponding action that we need to adopt to begin the process of salvation.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  We need to work on our salvation ourselves and we can start by believing and doing what Jesus told the Sadducees โ€“ we need to โ€œ๐’๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ณ๐’๐’“๐’… ๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ฎ๐’๐’… ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’”๐’๐’–๐’๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’” ๐’˜๐’‰๐’Š๐’„๐’‰ ๐’Š๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’ˆ๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’”๐’• ๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Ž๐’‚๐’๐’…๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’•.โ€ (๐’—.37)ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย 

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  To love God is to know Him and enter into an intimate union with Him and, we need not only commit this ๐’—.37 to memory but we must move ourselves to give to God the totality of our being because salvation starts with a total commitment of our lives to God. This is where the positive action is needed because to know and love God, we must make a decision to detach from our worldly ways that are incompatible with God.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  And here, Jesus raised the ante even further when he said in ๐’—.39 โ€œ๐’๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’๐’†๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’ƒ๐’๐’“๐’” ๐’‚๐’” ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡โ€ as the second greatest commandment. Again, this requires a positive action on our part because there are many Christians who get stuck when loving our neighbors is asked of us.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  The human side in us resists when memories of past hurt surfaces when we come face to face with our neighbors particularly our relatives and loved ones with whom we have tangled with in the past especially those with whom we are still locked in personal differences.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  But Jesus is not only being emphatic in the Gospel, but he changed the whole concept of what the Jews believed at the time and this means that if the Jews were to follow His words they are obliged to love even the Gentiles and non-Jews whom they treat as dogs.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  This is the same with us and we just have to draw on our faith and our complete reliance on the Holy Spirit to move in us and bring us to perfection and holiness by loving God and our neighbor. "๐˜ˆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญย ๐˜Š๐˜ฉ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜Š๐˜ฉ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ." All are called to holiness: "๐‘ฉ๐’†ย ๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’‡๐’†๐’„๐’•, ๐’‚๐’” ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’—๐’†๐’๐’๐’š ๐‘ญ๐’‚๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“ ๐’Š๐’” ๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’‡๐’†๐’„๐’•." (๐‘ช๐‘ช๐‘ช2013)ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  ย ย ย ย 

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  Being aware of who we are makes it easy for us to love God and our neighbor as well. To love God first takes precedence above everything else because it is only when we can love God that man is infused with the Grace to love those who like us were created in the image and likeness of God.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  It is when we act positively to love God and our neighbor that โ€œ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ฎ๐’“๐’‚๐’„๐’† ๐’๐’‡ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ฏ๐’๐’๐’š ๐‘บ๐’‘๐’Š๐’“๐’Š๐’• ๐’„๐’๐’๐’‡๐’†๐’“๐’” ๐’–๐’‘๐’๐’ ๐’–๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’“๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’•๐’†๐’๐’–๐’”๐’๐’†๐’”๐’” ๐’๐’‡ ๐‘ฎ๐’๐’…. ๐‘ผ๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’–๐’” ๐’ƒ๐’š ๐’‡๐’‚๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐‘ฉ๐’‚๐’‘๐’•๐’Š๐’”๐’Ž ๐’•๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐‘น๐’†๐’”๐’–๐’“๐’“๐’†๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’๐’‡ ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’“๐’Š๐’”๐’•, ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘บ๐’‘๐’Š๐’“๐’Š๐’• ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’Œ๐’†๐’” ๐’–๐’” ๐’”๐’‰๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’“๐’” ๐’Š๐’ ๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’†.โ€ (๐‘ช๐‘ช๐‘ช2017)ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย 

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  And it is this same Grace that will move us to enter into an intimate union with Christ that will help establish our complete devotion to God and the impetus to serve and love our neighbor along the way.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  Jesus emphasizes the importance of these two commandments because the action that results from our loving God and our neighbor in a positive way is what will propel us as Christian disciples to become fruitful in our service to God through our service in the Church or Community for that matter.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  To become fruitful servants means that the fruits of the Holy Spirit โ€“ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž, ๐ฃ๐จ๐ฒ, ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ž, ๐ฉ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž, ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ, ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ, ๐Ÿ๐š๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ, ๐ ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ-๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ โ€“ have become evident in our lives and are easily discernible when others look at us.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  But these fruits of the Holy Spirit need to be anchored on our loving our God with all our hearts, soul and minds and loving our neighbor as ourselves because these two commandments are what will motivate us to give of our time, talent and treasure in the service of our Church.ย ย ย ย ย 

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  Today is also the Memorial of the Queenship of the Blessed Virgin Mary. It was Pope Pius XII established this feast in 1954. But the Blessed Virgin Maryโ€™s queenship also has roots in Scripture. At the Annunciation, Gabriel announced that Maryโ€™s Son would receive the throne of David and rule forever.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  At the Visitation, Elizabeth calls Mary โ€œ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐‹๐จ๐ซ๐.โ€ As in all the mysteries of Maryโ€™s life, she is closely associated with Jesus: Her queenship is a share in Jesusโ€™ kingship. We can also recall that in the Old Testament the mother of the king has great influence in court.

ย ย ย ย ย ย  In the fourth century Saint Ephrem called Mary โ€œ๐‹๐š๐๐ฒโ€ ๐š๐ง๐ โ€œ๐๐ฎ๐ž๐ž๐ง.โ€ Later Church fathers and doctors continued to use this title. Hymns of the 11th to 13th centuries address Mary as queen: โ€œ๐‡๐š๐ข๐ฅ, ๐‡๐จ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ž๐ž๐ง,โ€ โ€œ๐‡๐š๐ข๐ฅ, ๐๐ฎ๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‡๐ž๐š๐ฏ๐ž๐ง,โ€ โ€œ๐๐ฎ๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‡๐ž๐š๐ฏ๐ž๐ง.โ€ The Dominican rosary and the Franciscan crown as well as numerous invocations in Maryโ€™s litany celebrate her queenship.

ย ย ย ย ย ย  The feast is a logical follow-up to the Assumption and is now celebrated on the octave day of that feast. In his 1954 encyclical To the Queen of Heaven, Pius XII points out that Mary deserves the title because she is the Mother of God, because she is closely associated as the New Eve with Jesusโ€™ redemptive work, because of her preeminent perfection, and because of her intercessory power.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  As Saint Paul suggests in Romans 8:28โ€“30, God has predestined human beings from all eternity to share the image of his Son. All the more was Mary predestined to be the mother of Jesus. As Jesus was to be king of all creation, Mary, in dependence on Jesus, was to be queen.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  All other titles to queenship derive from this eternal intention of God. As Jesus exercised his kingship on earth by serving his Father and his fellow human beings, so did Mary exercise her queenship. As the glorified Jesus remains with us as our king till the end of time (๐Œ๐š๐ญ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ–:๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ), so does Mary, who was assumed into heaven and crowned queen of heaven and earth. (๐˜Œ๐˜ฅย ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ โ€“ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ถ๐˜จ. 22, 2025)

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