In Life, Only One Thing Is Needed
- Ed Malay
- Jul 20, 2025
- 6 min read

๐๐๐๐ย ๐๐, ๐๐๐๐: ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐
๐๐ฌ๐ญย ๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ : ๐๐๐ง ๐๐:๐-๐๐
๐๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ฆ: ๐๐ฌ๐ ๐๐:๐-๐ โ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐๐จ๐๐ฌ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐๐ง๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐.โ
๐๐ง๐ย ๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ : ๐๐จ๐ฅ ๐:๐๐-๐๐
๐๐๐๐๐๐: ๐๐ ๐๐:๐๐-๐๐
๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐๐๐๐: โ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ .โ (๐.42)ย
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ย ย ย ย ย ย ย In life there are things that we set out to do and the underlying motivation is normally the advancement of self, to gather all the necessary knowledge and skills that will ensure for us a bright future not only for us personally but for the family that we will raise at some point in time.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย There will, however, come a point that everything we have achieved will no longer suffice and we will begin to crave for that one thing that will give us pure joy, the peace of mind that wealth, fame and power cannot give, the satisfaction of knowing that we have a purpose in life and just like everyone else before us, we will find that one thing at the feet of Jesus Christ.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย This was what Mary found when she sat on the floor at the feet of Jesus Christ and was accorded the rare opportunity of entering into the very heart of Our Lord. This encounter was what makes this Gospel reading an interesting narrative and the fact that it appears only in the Gospel of Luke has evoked a lot of discussion of what was it that Luke wanted to point out in highlighting the difference in the way Martha and Mary played hosts to Jesus as he passed by the town of Bethany.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย Located some two miles from Jerusalem, Bethany was a favorite stopover of Jesus probably because of his friendship with Lazarus who was the brother of Martha and Mary. And on this particular day, Jesus passed by Bethany and Martha opened up her home for him.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย Based on Jewish custom, to open up a home is not only to welcome a guest but to entertain that guest and the fact that Martha opened up her home to Jesus shows the degree of her respect for Jesus. Not only was Jesus a good friend of her brother but Martha knew she was welcoming an important person into her home, someone who has become popular with the people on account of his teachings and the many healing miracles that he has performed.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย And this was not going to be an ordinary day because Jesus doesnโt travel alone as he usually moves with his disciples in tow such that he always has to find a home that will welcome them when they move from town to town as staying in an inn was out of the question.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย With the way this narrative was weaved we might think that Mary was more spiritual than Martha which is of course wrong as Martha despite her being a busybody can also be regarded as a disciple as she opened up her home which means that she was supportive of the cause that Jesus was espousing.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย As the story goes, Martha kept herself busy preparing the dinner table and what Jesus and the other disciples were to eat while Mary sat at the feet of Jesus listening to his teaching. By doing so, Mary also made herself a disciple of Jesus because โ๐๐ย ๐๐๐ย ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐โ was a figurative way of describing a disciple in those days and we also see this in Paul who proudly claimed to have sat โ๐ข๐ตย ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ฐ๐ง ๐๐ข๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ฆ๐ญ.โ
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย This scene was also significant because when Mary sat at the feet of Jesus to listen to his teachings as the other disciples did, it effectively removed the distinction between men and women with respect to discipleship because women during the time of Jesus were not only exempted from the study of the law but were also discouraged from doing so.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย But as Mary listened to Jesus, Martha must have been rushing in her preparations that she was moved to ask Jesus โ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐.โ (๐.40). Some may view this as a sign of disrespect as it partook of a command to Jesus to tell Mary to help her.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย Jesusโ response may also be seen as a rebuke, but this was probably not the case because Jesus was a close friend of the family and thus it would also have been inappropriate for him to speak sternly to Martha who was hosting him such that his response was probably spoken with understanding and love.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย โ๐ด๐๐๐๐๐, ๐ด๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ . ๐ด๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐.โ (๐๐.41-42)ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย This was what Luke wanted to point out in this Gospel in that Mary has rightfully discerned that listening to Jesus and learning from the Master was far more important than anything else. Here, Mary simply showed that listening to Jesus was the highest form of respect as sitting at his feet was to give Jesus the honor that he deserves. It also provides us with the thought that we need to shift our priorities from the mundane concerns of the world to seeking the presence of Jesus to listen and follow Him.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย Many times, in our lives we are caught up with the concerns of housekeeping. Others lose themselves in the maze of life as they try to find their place in the sun searching for the gold at the end of the rainbow. In this Gospel we see two contrasting situations with Martha offering her labor to Jesus while Mary offers her time to listen to him.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย And so, we turn to our own self and ask how about us? What is it that we have or are doing that we can offer to Jesus? Do we use the talent and gifts that he gave us? Do we render faithful service that is compatible with our position in the Church or Community?
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย A deeper study of this Gospel will reveal that Jesus passed by the house of Martha and Mary to find a quiet place to rest. With the cross before him, his inner self must have been filled with tension and Jesus probably looked forward to having a rest and this was what Mary gave.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย When Jesus said: โ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ .โ (๐.42) he probably was telling Martha โ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฏโ๐ต ๐ต๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง, ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ, ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ช๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ด๐ต ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ ๐ช๐ด ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต.โ We at times are like Martha. We want to be kind to people but in our own way and at times we are offended because we feel we are not appreciated.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย This Gospel provides us a lesson in that when we try to be kind to someone the first thing we need to do is to get into the heart of the person we are helping and then forget everything we plan to do and think only of what the person needs.
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย To sit at his feet and listen was to obey and this is what Jesus wants from us in that we need to spend time listening to him. This is the โ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จโ that Mary found and it cannot be taken away from her because it is only at his feet that we can find peace and joy. In this story, Jesus is telling us to keep our minds off the world around us and spend a few moments listening to him. Itโs like Jesus is telling us โ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ข ๐ง๐ฆ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐ถ๐ต๐ฆ๐ด, ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ข๐ช๐ต. ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฆ๐ญ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ช๐ด ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต๐ข๐ฏ๐ต.โย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย
ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย This is what Lumen Fidei โ the first encyclical of Pope Francis โ is all about. In all, Lumen Fidei talks about the light of our Catholic Christian faith which is not complete unless we go through the three cycles of our faith โ learning it, living it and sharing it. The question we need to ask now is can we be like Mary who found โthe only thing that is neededโ and after finding that one thing we are moved to live it and most importantly to share it with others. (๐๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐บ โ ๐๐ถ๐ญ๐บ 20, 2025)



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